When Resistance Corrodes Connection
How To Create IntimacyYesterday I was at a business meeting in NYC with some colleagues and one proudly announced he was using an app to… Read More »When Resistance Corrodes Connection
How To Create IntimacyYesterday I was at a business meeting in NYC with some colleagues and one proudly announced he was using an app to… Read More »When Resistance Corrodes Connection
Deepening Connection With Your PartnerNot a week goes by in my practice without meeting a couple who have lost connection. What was once a flurry… Read More »Deepening Connection With Your Partner
How To Set A Boundary?Many of us do not know that we even have a boundary until it’s been crossed. For a lot of us,… Read More »How Do I Know When To Set A Boundary?
Less Sex, Bad Sex & Sex Tech Recent stats show that young people are having less sex than any generation before them. Despite the so… Read More »Less Sex, Bad Sex & Sex Tech
Is everything we believe about monogamy wrong? Last night I attended Open Love NY’s panel / discussion event with Wednesday Martin (author of Untrue and… Read More »Is everything we believe about monogamy wrong?
Getting Triggered in Relationships The word ‘triggered’ occurs frequently on social media. Originally the word was used in clinical contexts to describe responses arising… Read More »Getting Triggered in Relationships
How We Unlearn PleasureObserve children playing outdoors. Whether together or alone, they are totally engaged and at-one with the moment they are experiencing. They let their… Read More »How We Unlearn Pleasure
The (short) history of the PenisThe penis has been enormously influential in shaping our beliefs and the cultural history of the world. Revered and feared in societies across the… Read More »The (short) History of the Penis
Sex, Death & Erotic Values“When we first got together I really enjoyed sex with my partner, but over time it started to change. I didn’t… Read More »Sex, Death and Erotic Values
UNDERSTANDING YOUR EROTIC VALUESMany relationships counselors will talk about ‘relationship values’. Relationship values are what motivates us to find fulfillment in a relationship. For example,… Read More »Understanding Your Erotic Values