Tag: genitals

Why Can’t I Come During Sex?

Why Can’t I Come During Sex?*This article is referring exclusively to ciswomen & men”Why can’t I orgasm during sex?” She asks me…perplexed and bewildered.If I had a dollar for every time I was asked that question, I’d not only be laughing all the way to the bank, I’d also be making sure everybody knew what […]

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How to Make Sex Last Longer

How to Make Sex Last Longer One of the most common questions I am asked is how to make sex last longer. For many of you, especially cis men, sex becomes challenging when you have to slow down and allow the encounter to lead you. After all, you long to be in control. You want […]

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The (short) History of the Penis

The penis has been enormously influential in shaping our beliefs and the cultural history of the world. Revered and feared in societies across the world, its name ‘penis’ comes from the Latin, meaning ‘tail’ and is the ultimate symbol of masculinity worldwide. Temples in India were once erected (no pun intended) in their honor, modern skyscrapers resemble their glory, […]

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Women & That ‘Orgasm’ Problem

Women & That ‘Orgasm’ ProblemOne of the most frequently asked questions I get from women in my practice is about their ability to orgasm.Orgasm is the main outcome or goal many of us focus on when discussing sex. In terms of both language and culture it’s the  default used determine whether or not sex has been […]

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How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?

How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?Dear Cyndi,I am married, age 47, to date have not been able give my wife a single orgasm. Is there a single act where this can be achieved?CarlDear CarlThanks for your question. I often hear stories from men in my practice, about their inability, or at least a […]

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Masturbation; it’s not just for wankers!

Masturbation; it’s not just for wankers! Masturbation is a really important part of human sexuality. Despite its reputation as a selfish practice, masturbation can actually expand and enhance our erotic experiences with others. When we know more about how our body responds to touch and stimulation, the more likely we are able to access this […]

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5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure Tonight

5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure TonightIn my practice, I meet many women who struggle with their sexual pleasure. After all, we live in a culture that really doesn’t value and prioritize pleasure in any way, so sometimes it’s difficult to know where to start. But the truth is, it doesn’t have to be this […]

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Why Our Conversations About Sex Need To Change.

Why Our Conversations About Sex Need To Change.When sex makes headlines, it’s usually for all the ‘wrong’ reasons. Do a Google News search (see images below) for sex and you will see endless examples of sex gone bad; shame making articles, heinous violations, articles espousing bigger-better-faster-stronger, or a celebrity sex tape that begins to circulate and […]

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