Tag: sex positive

How to Touch Like You Mean It!

How to Touch Like You Mean It! One of the most basic forms of human connection is touch. For so many of us it’s hard to imagine life without it. From erotic passion to profound love, there is no deeper expression of affection, emotion and eroticism. Sadly, so many of us are touch-starved, not only […]

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Less Sex, Bad Sex & Sex Tech

Less Sex, Bad Sex & Sex Tech Recent stats show that young people are having less sex than any generation before them. Despite the so called ‘sex recession’ there is no evidence to suggest that other adult generations are also hit by this decline in carnal activities. In fact to the contrary, those over 55 […]

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Women & That ‘Orgasm’ Problem

Women & That ‘Orgasm’ ProblemOne of the most frequently asked questions I get from women in my practice is about their ability to orgasm.Orgasm is the main outcome or goal many of us focus on when discussing sex. In terms of both language and culture it’s the  default used determine whether or not sex has been […]

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Join Me Around The Back…

Join Me Around The Back… Out of the closet and into our lives, anal is indeed the new black.  Anal is the great equalizer – because everybody has one. But the egalitarian nature of the ‘back door’ does not mean that everyone knows nor is skilled in the delicate art of anal pleasure.For many, anal […]

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Masturbation; it’s not just for wankers!

Masturbation; it’s not just for wankers! Masturbation is a really important part of human sexuality. Despite its reputation as a selfish practice, masturbation can actually expand and enhance our erotic experiences with others. When we know more about how our body responds to touch and stimulation, the more likely we are able to access this […]

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Porndemonium

Porndemonium I am part of several online groups for sex professionals, which are a great source of inspiration and also discussion. Recently, a discussion erupted into a slagging match in which one member criticised some of the senior educators in our global community for not doing ‘enough’ about the ‘crisis’. Crisis? I thought. What crisis […]

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5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure Tonight

5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure TonightIn my practice, I meet many women who struggle with their sexual pleasure. After all, we live in a culture that really doesn’t value and prioritize pleasure in any way, so sometimes it’s difficult to know where to start. But the truth is, it doesn’t have to be this […]

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Why Our Conversations About Sex Need To Change.

Why Our Conversations About Sex Need To Change.When sex makes headlines, it’s usually for all the ‘wrong’ reasons. Do a Google News search (see images below) for sex and you will see endless examples of sex gone bad; shame making articles, heinous violations, articles espousing bigger-better-faster-stronger, or a celebrity sex tape that begins to circulate and […]

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Living Richly; Dancing with Uncertainty

Living Richly; Dancing with UncertaintyOne of the most powerful lessons I have received in my life and that I draw on heavily in counselling and education with clients is working with the notion of uncertainty. Uncertainty is harrowing in so many ways. It brings us face to face with the impermanence of life. Love, Life, Relationships […]

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