Tag: touch

Why Can’t I Come During Sex?

Why Can’t I Come During Sex?*This article is referring exclusively to ciswomen & men”Why can’t I orgasm during sex?” She asks me…perplexed and bewildered.If I had a dollar for every time I was asked that question, I’d not only be laughing all the way to the bank, I’d also be making sure everybody knew what […]

Read More

How to Make Sex Last Longer

How to Make Sex Last Longer One of the most common questions I am asked is how to make sex last longer. For many of you, especially cis men, sex becomes challenging when you have to slow down and allow the encounter to lead you. After all, you long to be in control. You want […]

Read More

Join Me Around The Back…

Join Me Around The Back… Out of the closet and into our lives, anal is indeed the new black.  Anal is the great equalizer – because everybody has one. But the egalitarian nature of the ‘back door’ does not mean that everyone knows nor is skilled in the delicate art of anal pleasure.For many, anal […]

Read More

Why Don’t I Have Great Sex?

Why Don’t I Have Great Sex? Dear Cyndi, I am writing because I have been struggling for many years with my sex life. I have had several sexual experiences (all with men), but most of the time I end up feeling like sex has no meaning or purpose for me. I just can’t get into […]

Read More

5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure Tonight

5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure TonightIn my practice, I meet many women who struggle with their sexual pleasure. After all, we live in a culture that really doesn’t value and prioritize pleasure in any way, so sometimes it’s difficult to know where to start. But the truth is, it doesn’t have to be this […]

Read More