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What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

  • by Cyndi
  • November 28, 2025December 2, 2025

What Does a Sex Therapist Do? I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job… Read More »What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

How to Initiate Sex

  • by Cyndi
  • November 24, 2025November 28, 2025

How To Initiate Sex Initiating sex can be uncomfortable for many of us. You may be the type who initiates by grabbing a part of… Read More »How to Initiate Sex

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How To Create More Intimacy

  • by Cyndi
  • November 21, 2025November 25, 2025

Learn the secrets of mind-blowing sex and how to keep it that way! Make sex better!

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How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?

  • by Cyndi
  • November 14, 2025November 30, 2025

How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm? Hi Cyndi, I am married, age 37, and to date have not been able give my wife… Read More »How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?

How Can I Get More Out Of My Sex Life?

  • by Cyndi
  • October 28, 2025November 25, 2025

How Can I Get More From My Sex Life? I teach people how to have sex – for a living! It’s the best job in… Read More »How Can I Get More Out Of My Sex Life?

Cyndi Darnell is NYC best somatic sex therapist and sexologist.

Reigniting Intimacy: How Sex Therapy Can Transform Your Relationship

  • by Cyndi
  • February 20, 2025February 23, 2025

In the hustle of New York City life, it’s easy for intimacy to take a backseat. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, newly dating, or… Read More »Reigniting Intimacy: How Sex Therapy Can Transform Your Relationship

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From Resistance to Connection: Reclaiming Pleasure in a Busy World

  • by Cyndi
  • February 20, 2025March 11, 2025

Are You Working Smarter—or Just More?Yesterday, at a business meeting in NYC, a colleague proudly shared how an app helped him get up two hours… Read More »From Resistance to Connection: Reclaiming Pleasure in a Busy World

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Why Can’t I Come During Sex?

  • by Cyndi
  • February 6, 2025February 23, 2025

Why Can’t I Come During Sex?*This article is referring exclusively to ciswomen & men”Why can’t I orgasm during sex?” She asks me…perplexed and bewildered.If I… Read More »Why Can’t I Come During Sex?

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How To Have Great Sex

  • by Cyndi
  • January 27, 2025February 23, 2025

How To Have Great SexWhat makes sex great? People have been asking this question for aeons, but wonder no more. According to research, there are… Read More »How To Have Great Sex

Cyndi Darnell, one of New York City's most renowned sex therapists, sexologists, and couples counselors, continues to set new standards in the field of sexual wellness and relationship counseling. With a unique, holistic approach that bridges science, psychology, and compassionate coaching, Darnell has become a pivotal figure for individuals and couples seeking to transform their intimate lives. As an internationally recognized expert, Cyndi Darnell combines clinical expertise with an inclusive, nonjudgmental perspective, empowering clients to overcome challenges related to intimacy, communication, and sexual satisfaction. Her innovative methods focus not only on the physical aspects of sexuality but also on the emotional and psychological factors that contribute to fulfilling relationships.

Rekindling The Flame

  • by Cyndi
  • October 23, 2019November 25, 2025

Rekindling The Flame    …when life gets in the way Date nights are great. They can remind you of why you fell in love way… Read More »Rekindling The Flame

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