Getting Triggered in Relationships The word ‘triggered’ occurs frequently on social media. Originally the word was used in clinical contexts to describe responses arising… Read More »Getting Triggered in Relationships
How We Unlearn PleasureObserve children playing outdoors. Whether together or alone, they are totally engaged and at-one with the moment they are experiencing. They let their… Read More »How We Unlearn Pleasure
The (short) history of the PenisThe penis has been enormously influential in shaping our beliefs and the cultural history of the world. Revered and feared in societies across the… Read More »The (short) History of the Penis
I’ve Lost My LibidoHi Cyndi, I am 23 years old and I’m facing a difficult moment sexually because I have lost my libido. I have… Read More »Where did my sex drive go?
UNDERSTANDING YOUR EROTIC VALUESMany relationships counselors will talk about ‘relationship values’. Relationship values are what motivates us to find fulfillment in a relationship. For example,… Read More »Understanding Your Erotic Values
How Can I Get More From My Sex Life?I teach people how to have sex – for a living! It’s the best job in the… Read More »How Can I Get More Out Of My Sex Life?
Women & That ‘Orgasm’ ProblemOne of the most frequently asked questions I get from women in my practice is about their ability to orgasm.Orgasm is… Read More »Women & That ‘Orgasm’ Problem
How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?Dear Cyndi,I am married, age 47, to date have not been able give my wife a single orgasm.… Read More »How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?
Talking to Kids About Porn Porn is often blamed for complicated sexuality, but the truth is, as a society we have never really been comfortable with… Read More »Talking to Kids About Porn
