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What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

  • by Cyndi
  • November 28, 2025December 2, 2025

What Does a Sex Therapist Do? I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job… Read More »What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

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How To Fix Mismatched Libido and Rediscover Desire

  • by Cyndi
  • November 23, 2025November 25, 2025

Help! Our Sex Drives Don’t Match! Feeling Stuck When It Comes to Sex and Connection? You’re Not Alone. We live in a world more connected… Read More »How To Fix Mismatched Libido and Rediscover Desire

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How To Have Great Sex

  • by Cyndi
  • January 27, 2025February 23, 2025

How To Have Great SexWhat makes sex great? People have been asking this question for aeons, but wonder no more. According to research, there are… Read More »How To Have Great Sex

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How to Rekindle The Spark in Your Relationship

  • by Cyndi
  • January 19, 2025February 21, 2025

Help! I’m losing attraction to my partner!For a lot people in relationships, one thing that comes up often is the fear of what losing attraction… Read More »How to Rekindle The Spark in Your Relationship

Vulnerability, The Last Taboo?

  • by Cyndi
  • August 11, 2021December 5, 2025

Vulnerability, The Last Taboo? In fragile times, it’s often our most intimate and close relationships that suffer. Intimacy is the glue, the enhancer that gives… Read More »Vulnerability, The Last Taboo?

Sex & The Single Person

  • by Cyndi
  • July 19, 2021January 28, 2023

Sex, Relationships & The Single PersonAre you tired of reading about sex and relationships advice that always centers partnered people and those in relationships? Me… Read More »Sex & The Single Person

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My Partner Cheated. Now What?

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  • September 13, 2020January 28, 2023

My Partner Cheated On Me. Now What?There’s no two ways about it. Being cheated on really hurts. While profoundly destabilizing, cheating is common both in… Read More »My Partner Cheated. Now What?

Is everything we believe about monogamy wrong?

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  • April 24, 2019September 13, 2020

Is everything we believe about monogamy wrong? Last night I attended Open Love NY’s panel / discussion event with Wednesday Martin (author of Untrue and… Read More »Is everything we believe about monogamy wrong?

Sex, Death and Erotic Values

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  • October 25, 2017January 28, 2023

Sex, Death & Erotic Values“When we first got together I really enjoyed sex with my partner, but over time it started to change. I didn’t… Read More »Sex, Death and Erotic Values

Understanding Your Erotic Values

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  • October 25, 2017January 28, 2023

UNDERSTANDING YOUR EROTIC VALUESMany relationships counselors will talk about ‘relationship values’. Relationship values are what motivates us to find fulfillment in a relationship. For example,… Read More »Understanding Your Erotic Values

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