How We Unlearn Pleasure
How We Unlearn PleasureObserve children playing outdoors. Whether together or alone, they are totally engaged and at-one with the moment they are experiencing. They let their… Read More »How We Unlearn Pleasure
How We Unlearn PleasureObserve children playing outdoors. Whether together or alone, they are totally engaged and at-one with the moment they are experiencing. They let their… Read More »How We Unlearn Pleasure
The (short) history of the PenisThe penis has been enormously influential in shaping our beliefs and the cultural history of the world. Revered and feared in societies across the… Read More »The (short) History of the Penis
I’ve Lost My LibidoHi Cyndi, I am 23 years old and I’m facing a difficult moment sexually because I have lost my libido. I have… Read More »Where did my sex drive go?
Hook ups, dating & pleasure in the age of AnsariYou have to have been living under a rock to have missed the conversations around rape… Read More »Hook ups, dating & pleasure in the age of Ansari
GETTING REAL ABOUT CONSENTConsent is a buzz word these days. In sexuality education and sex positive circles it’s thrown around with gay abandon, while its… Read More »Getting real about consent
Sex, Death & Erotic Values“When we first got together I really enjoyed sex with my partner, but over time it started to change. I didn’t… Read More »Sex, Death and Erotic Values
UNDERSTANDING YOUR EROTIC VALUESMany relationships counselors will talk about ‘relationship values’. Relationship values are what motivates us to find fulfillment in a relationship. For example,… Read More »Understanding Your Erotic Values
VD in Wartime AustraliaLast night I was lucky enough to be a guest at Dr Ian Denham’s enlightening account of the sexual plight of the… Read More »VD in Wartime Australia
When Love Hurts…My post just before the holidays late last year was a reflection on the struggles of having unresolved feelings during ‘happy’ times. When… Read More »When Love Hurts…
How Can I Get More From My Sex Life?I teach people how to have sex – for a living! It’s the best job in the… Read More »How Can I Get More Out Of My Sex Life?