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What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

  • by Cyndi
  • November 28, 2025December 2, 2025

What Does a Sex Therapist Do? I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job… Read More »What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

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How To Fix Mismatched Libido and Rediscover Desire

  • by Cyndi
  • November 23, 2025November 25, 2025

Help! Our Sex Drives Don’t Match! Feeling Stuck When It Comes to Sex and Connection? You’re Not Alone. We live in a world more connected… Read More »How To Fix Mismatched Libido and Rediscover Desire

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How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?

  • by Cyndi
  • November 14, 2025November 30, 2025

How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm? Hi Cyndi, I am married, age 37, and to date have not been able give my wife… Read More »How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?

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Why Can’t I Come During Sex?

  • by Cyndi
  • February 6, 2025February 23, 2025

Why Can’t I Come During Sex?*This article is referring exclusively to ciswomen & men”Why can’t I orgasm during sex?” She asks me…perplexed and bewildered.If I… Read More »Why Can’t I Come During Sex?

Cyndi Darnell, an internationally acclaimed sex and relationship therapist, educator, and speaker, is redefining the landscape of inclusive therapy in New York City. With a steadfast commitment to relationship diversity and LGBTQIA+ affirmation, Darnell has become one of the most sought-after therapists for individuals, couples, and polycules navigating complex relationship dynamics.

How to Touch Like You Mean It!

  • by Cyndi
  • April 26, 2019March 11, 2025

How to Touch Your Lover(Like You Mean It!)One of the most basic forms of human connection is touch. For so many of us it’s hard… Read More »How to Touch Like You Mean It!

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How to Make Sex Last Longer

  • by Cyndi
  • March 14, 2019January 28, 2023

How to Make Sex Last Longer One of the most common questions I am asked is how to make sex last longer. For many of… Read More »How to Make Sex Last Longer

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Women & That 'Orgasm' Problem

  • by Cyndi
  • November 24, 2016March 11, 2025

Women & That ‘Orgasm’ ProblemOne of the most frequently asked questions I get from women in my practice is about their ability to orgasm.Orgasm is… Read More »Women & That 'Orgasm' Problem

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