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Why You Should Consider Seeing a Sex Therapist

  • by Cyndi
  • November 25, 2025November 28, 2025

Why You Should Consider Seeing a Sex Therapist: Understanding the Benefits of Sexual Wellness Support Sex is an important part of the human experience. It’s… Read More »Why You Should Consider Seeing a Sex Therapist

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How to Increase Your Sexual Desire and Boost Your Sex Drive

  • by Cyndi
  • November 25, 2025December 4, 2025

Explore Your Sexual Desire & Reignite the Passion Within You may be asking yourself, “What happened to my sexual desire?”Struggling with low libido and low… Read More »How to Increase Your Sexual Desire and Boost Your Sex Drive

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How to Understand Your Sexual Fantasies

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  • November 25, 2025November 25, 2025

Sexual Fantasies: What Do They Mean? Sexual fantasies are as common as daydreaming. Imagining ourselves in a hot tryst with a (several) flight attendant(s), being… Read More »How to Understand Your Sexual Fantasies

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How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?

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  • November 14, 2025November 30, 2025

How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm? Hi Cyndi, I am married, age 37, and to date have not been able give my wife… Read More »How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?

5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure Tonight

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  • November 10, 2025November 30, 2025

5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure Tonight In my practice, I meet many people, especially women who struggle with their sexual pleasure. After all, we… Read More »5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure Tonight

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How To Have Great Sex

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  • January 27, 2025February 23, 2025

How To Have Great SexWhat makes sex great? People have been asking this question for aeons, but wonder no more. According to research, there are… Read More »How To Have Great Sex

Rough Sex Anyone?

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  • April 24, 2021January 28, 2023

Rough Sex Anyone?My current lover and I have been having quite rough sex. Hair pulling,  choking and slapping, etc. I am really enjoying it in… Read More »Rough Sex Anyone?

The Desire Myth

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  • February 9, 2021February 1, 2023

The Desire MythIf you could take a pill to make food you don’t like, enjoyable, would you take it?If you could take a pill to… Read More »The Desire Myth

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My Partner Cheated. Now What?

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  • September 13, 2020January 28, 2023

My Partner Cheated On Me. Now What?There’s no two ways about it. Being cheated on really hurts. While profoundly destabilizing, cheating is common both in… Read More »My Partner Cheated. Now What?

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Deepening Connection With Your Partner

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  • January 14, 2020January 28, 2023

Deepening Connection With Your PartnerNot a week goes by in my practice without meeting a couple who have lost connection. What was once a flurry… Read More »Deepening Connection With Your Partner

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