Is everything we believe about monogamy wrong? Last night I attended Open Love NY’s panel / discussion event with Wednesday Martin (author of Untrue and… Read More »Is everything we believe about monogamy wrong?
What does a sex therapist do?I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job is.… Read More »What does a sex therapist do?
Getting Triggered in Relationships The word ‘triggered’ occurs frequently on social media. Originally the word was used in clinical contexts to describe responses arising… Read More »Getting Triggered in Relationships
How We Unlearn PleasureObserve children playing outdoors. Whether together or alone, they are totally engaged and at-one with the moment they are experiencing. They let their… Read More »How We Unlearn Pleasure
GETTING REAL ABOUT CONSENTConsent is a buzz word these days. In sexuality education and sex positive circles it’s thrown around with gay abandon, while its… Read More »Getting real about consent
Sex, Death & Erotic Values“When we first got together I really enjoyed sex with my partner, but over time it started to change. I didn’t… Read More »Sex, Death and Erotic Values
UNDERSTANDING YOUR EROTIC VALUESMany relationships counselors will talk about ‘relationship values’. Relationship values are what motivates us to find fulfillment in a relationship. For example,… Read More »Understanding Your Erotic Values
When Love Hurts…My post just before the holidays late last year was a reflection on the struggles of having unresolved feelings during ‘happy’ times. When… Read More »When Love Hurts…
How Can I Get More From My Sex Life?I teach people how to have sex – for a living! It’s the best job in the… Read More »How Can I Get More Out Of My Sex Life?
Women & That ‘Orgasm’ ProblemOne of the most frequently asked questions I get from women in my practice is about their ability to orgasm.Orgasm is… Read More »Women & That ‘Orgasm’ Problem