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What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

  • by Cyndi
  • November 28, 2025November 28, 2025

What Does a Sex Therapist Do? I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job… Read More »What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

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How To Fix Mismatched Libido and Rediscover Desire

  • by Cyndi
  • November 23, 2025November 25, 2025

Help! Our Sex Drives Don’t Match! Feeling Stuck When It Comes to Sex and Connection? You’re Not Alone. We live in a world more connected… Read More »How To Fix Mismatched Libido and Rediscover Desire

How Can I Get More Out Of My Sex Life?

  • by Cyndi
  • October 28, 2025November 25, 2025

How Can I Get More From My Sex Life? I teach people how to have sex – for a living! It’s the best job in… Read More »How Can I Get More Out Of My Sex Life?

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Why Can’t I Come During Sex?

  • by Cyndi
  • February 6, 2025February 23, 2025

Why Can’t I Come During Sex?*This article is referring exclusively to ciswomen & men”Why can’t I orgasm during sex?” She asks me…perplexed and bewildered.If I… Read More »Why Can’t I Come During Sex?

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Sex and The Vagus Nerve

  • by Cyndi
  • December 23, 2020January 28, 2023

Sex & The Vagus Nerve Learn how working with body can reduce tension and help you have better sex. Many of us feel uncomfortable about sex.… Read More »Sex and The Vagus Nerve

Cyndi Darnell, one of New York City's most renowned sex therapists, sexologists, and couples counselors, continues to set new standards in the field of sexual wellness and relationship counseling. With a unique, holistic approach that bridges science, psychology, and compassionate coaching, Darnell has become a pivotal figure for individuals and couples seeking to transform their intimate lives. As an internationally recognized expert, Cyndi Darnell combines clinical expertise with an inclusive, nonjudgmental perspective, empowering clients to overcome challenges related to intimacy, communication, and sexual satisfaction. Her innovative methods focus not only on the physical aspects of sexuality but also on the emotional and psychological factors that contribute to fulfilling relationships.

Rekindling The Flame

  • by Cyndi
  • October 23, 2019November 25, 2025

Rekindling The Flame    …when life gets in the way Date nights are great. They can remind you of why you fell in love way… Read More »Rekindling The Flame

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How to Make Sex Last Longer

  • by Cyndi
  • March 14, 2019January 28, 2023

How to Make Sex Last Longer One of the most common questions I am asked is how to make sex last longer. For many of… Read More »How to Make Sex Last Longer

The (short) History of the Penis

  • by Cyndi
  • August 14, 2018April 9, 2020

The (short) history of the PenisThe penis has been enormously influential in shaping our beliefs and the cultural history of the world. Revered and feared in societies across the… Read More »The (short) History of the Penis

How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?

  • by Cyndi
  • November 14, 2016March 13, 2025

How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?Dear Cyndi,I am married, age 47, to date have not been able give my wife a single orgasm.… Read More »How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?

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Erectile Dysfunction. How hard can it be?

  • by Cyndi
  • November 8, 2016January 28, 2023

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