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How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?

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  • November 14, 2025November 30, 2025

How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm? Hi Cyndi, I am married, age 37, and to date have not been able give my wife… Read More »How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?

5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure Tonight

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5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure Tonight In my practice, I meet many people, especially women who struggle with their sexual pleasure. After all, we… Read More »5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure Tonight

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Reigniting Intimacy: How Sex Therapy Can Transform Your Relationship

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In the hustle of New York City life, it’s easy for intimacy to take a backseat. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, newly dating, or… Read More »Reigniting Intimacy: How Sex Therapy Can Transform Your Relationship

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From Resistance to Connection: Reclaiming Pleasure in a Busy World

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Are You Working Smarter—or Just More?Yesterday, at a business meeting in NYC, a colleague proudly shared how an app helped him get up two hours… Read More »From Resistance to Connection: Reclaiming Pleasure in a Busy World

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Why Can’t I Come During Sex?

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Why Can’t I Come During Sex?*This article is referring exclusively to ciswomen & men”Why can’t I orgasm during sex?” She asks me…perplexed and bewildered.If I… Read More »Why Can’t I Come During Sex?

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How To Have Great Sex

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How to Rekindle The Spark in Your Relationship

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Help! I’m losing attraction to my partner!For a lot people in relationships, one thing that comes up often is the fear of what losing attraction… Read More »How to Rekindle The Spark in Your Relationship

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How To Improve Communication In The Bedroom

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How Boundaries Improve Your Relationship & Sex Life

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