Am I ready for an open relationship?
Am I ready for an open relationship?One of the biggest changes I have seen in the straight, bi and queer communities in the past 20… Read More »Am I ready for an open relationship?
Am I ready for an open relationship?One of the biggest changes I have seen in the straight, bi and queer communities in the past 20… Read More »Am I ready for an open relationship?
The Desire MythIf you could take a pill to make food you don’t like, enjoyable, would you take it?If you could take a pill to… Read More »The Desire Myth
My Partner Cheated On Me. Now What?There’s no two ways about it. Being cheated on really hurts. While profoundly destabilizing, cheating is common both in… Read More »My Partner Cheated. Now What?
How To Set A Boundary?Many of us do not know that we even have a boundary until it’s been crossed. For a lot of us,… Read More »How Do I Know When To Set A Boundary?
How to Touch Your Lover(Like You Mean It!)One of the most basic forms of human connection is touch. For so many of us it’s hard… Read More »How to Touch Like You Mean It!
What does a sex therapist do?I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job is.… Read More »What does a sex therapist do?
Getting Triggered in Relationships The word ‘triggered’ occurs frequently on social media. Originally the word was used in clinical contexts to describe responses arising… Read More »Getting Triggered in Relationships
Hook ups, dating & pleasure in the age of AnsariYou have to have been living under a rock to have missed the conversations around rape… Read More »Hook ups, dating & pleasure in the age of Ansari
GETTING REAL ABOUT CONSENTConsent is a buzz word these days. In sexuality education and sex positive circles it’s thrown around with gay abandon, while its… Read More »Getting real about consent
UNDERSTANDING YOUR EROTIC VALUESMany relationships counselors will talk about ‘relationship values’. Relationship values are what motivates us to find fulfillment in a relationship. For example,… Read More »Understanding Your Erotic Values