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What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

  • by Cyndi
  • November 28, 2025November 28, 2025

What Does a Sex Therapist Do? I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job… Read More »What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

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Elevate Your Relationships: 10 Expert Tips for Healthy Polyamory and Non-Monogamy

  • by Cyndi
  • November 24, 2025November 25, 2025

Elevate Your Polyamory Journey: 10 Expert Tips for Healthy Non-Monogamy One of the most significant social shifts in recent years is the growing interest in… Read More »Elevate Your Relationships: 10 Expert Tips for Healthy Polyamory and Non-Monogamy

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How Boundaries Improve Your Relationship & Sex Life

  • by Cyndi
  • December 11, 2024February 23, 2025

Listening to Your Limits: How to Recognize and Set Healthy BoundariesMany people don’t recognize their boundaries until they’re crossed. Boundaries often reveal themselves through life… Read More »How Boundaries Improve Your Relationship & Sex Life

Vulnerability, The Last Taboo?

  • by Cyndi
  • August 11, 2021January 28, 2023

Vulnerability, The Last Taboo?In fragile times, it’s often our most intimate and close relationships that suffer. Intimacy is the glue, the enhancer that gives us… Read More »Vulnerability, The Last Taboo?

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My Partner Cheated. Now What?

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  • September 13, 2020January 28, 2023

My Partner Cheated On Me. Now What?There’s no two ways about it. Being cheated on really hurts. While profoundly destabilizing, cheating is common both in… Read More »My Partner Cheated. Now What?

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I Cheated. Now What?

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  • September 10, 2020January 28, 2023

I Cheated. Now What?What To Do When You’ve Had An Affair.No one likes to think of themselves as a cheater, yet conservative estimates suggest cheating… Read More »I Cheated. Now What?

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How We Unlearn Pleasure

  • by Cyndi
  • October 10, 2018January 28, 2023

How We Unlearn PleasureObserve children playing outdoors. Whether together or alone, they are totally engaged and at-one with the moment they are experiencing. They let their… Read More »How We Unlearn Pleasure

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