How to Have Spontaneous Sex
Spontaneous Sex: The Fantasy of Desire Without Effort Ahhh, spontaneous sex. The phrase alone conjures images of youth, tropical holidays, cocktails on the beach, stolen… Read More »How to Have Spontaneous Sex
Spontaneous Sex: The Fantasy of Desire Without Effort Ahhh, spontaneous sex. The phrase alone conjures images of youth, tropical holidays, cocktails on the beach, stolen… Read More »How to Have Spontaneous Sex
Advanced Non-Monogamous Dynamics: Beyond Jealousy in Polyamory Polyamory and Non-Monogamy is often introduced through the language of jealousy. How do you handle jealousy? How do… Read More »Beyond Jealousy: Advanced Polyamory and Non-Monogamous Relationships
Fawning In Bed: Sex as a Peacekeeping Device Saying yes to sex, when you’re not especially into it, can be a type of fawning response… Read More »Fawning Responses During Sex – Attachment and Autonomy
What If You’ve Never Seen A Relationship Built On Love? Most of us arrive at midlife carrying relationships like old luggage — overpacked, worn at… Read More »What If You’ve Never Seen a Relationship Built on Love?
At The Edge Of Wanting: Women, Queering Desire, And The Courage To Look There’s a moment many women and queer people recognize but rarely say… Read More »At The Edge Of Wanting: Women, Queering Desire, And The Courage To Look
How Patriarchy Conquered Desire, and How To Get It Back If your body says no, but your mind says you should, that’s not desire. That’s… Read More »How Patriarchy Conquered Desire (and How To Get It Back)
Polyamory Myth-Busting: Separating Facts From Fear Polyamory has become more visible in recent years, yet the misconceptions surrounding it are still abundant. Much of what… Read More »Polyamory Myth-Busting
The Psychology of Kinks and Fantasies Understanding Desire With Curiosity, Not Judgment Kinks and sexual fantasies are often misunderstood, despite being a completely normal part… Read More »The Psychology of Kinks and Fantasies
How To Initiate Sex Initiating sex can be uncomfortable for many of us. You may be the type who initiates by grabbing a part of… Read More »How to Initiate Sex
Rough Sex Anyone?My current lover and I have been having quite rough sex. Hair pulling, choking and slapping, etc. I am really enjoying it in… Read More »Rough Sex Anyone?