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Unlearning Patriarchy and Desire

  • by Cyndi
  • December 17, 2025December 12, 2025

Unlearning Patriarchy and Desire Here’s what nobody tells you: your desire was never meant to be yours. From the moment we’re conscious enough to understand… Read More »Unlearning Patriarchy and Desire

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How Anger Transforms Intimacy

  • by Cyndi
  • December 13, 2025August 4, 2026

The Bedroom Battlefield: How Anger Transforms Intimacy In the quiet moments after a fight, when bodies that once moved toward each other now lie rigid… Read More »How Anger Transforms Intimacy

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Understanding Loneliness and Shame in Relationships

  • by Cyndi
  • December 10, 2025February 19, 2026

The Quiet Ache: Understanding Loneliness and Shame in Relationships One of the most disorienting experiences in life is feeling profoundly lonely while lying next to… Read More »Understanding Loneliness and Shame in Relationships

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When Emptiness Drives Our Sexual Lives

  • by Cyndi
  • December 8, 2025August 4, 2026

The Hollow Pursuit: When Emptiness Drives Our Sexual Lives There’s a particular kind of loneliness that doesn’t announce itself with tears or obvious despair. It’s… Read More »When Emptiness Drives Our Sexual Lives

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The Science of Responsive Desire

  • by Cyndi
  • December 1, 2025September 20, 2026

The Science of Responsive Desire: Understanding Low Desire and Mismatched Desire For a long time, we were taught to think about sexual desire as something… Read More »The Science of Responsive Desire

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Healing Sexual Shame

  • by Cyndi
  • November 30, 2025November 30, 2025

Healing Sexual Shame Understanding and Reclaiming Your Sexual Self Sexual shame is one of the most common yet least discussed experiences in human sexuality. Many… Read More »Healing Sexual Shame

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The Psychology of Kinks and Fantasies

  • by Cyndi
  • November 29, 2025November 28, 2025

The Psychology of Kinks and Fantasies Understanding Desire With Curiosity, Not Judgment Kinks and sexual fantasies are often misunderstood, despite being a completely normal part… Read More »The Psychology of Kinks and Fantasies

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Sexual Burnout in the Age of Constant Stimulation

  • by Cyndi
  • November 28, 2025December 3, 2025

Sexual Burnout in the Age of Constant Stimulation In a world where our phones light up every few seconds and our lives are filled with… Read More »Sexual Burnout in the Age of Constant Stimulation

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What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

  • by Cyndi
  • November 28, 2025December 2, 2025

What Does a Sex Therapist Do? I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job… Read More »What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

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Understanding Mismatched Libido and A Sexless Marriage

  • by Cyndi
  • November 26, 2025September 19, 2026

Understanding Mismatched Desire: What’s Happening InĀ  Dead Bedroom? Mismatched libido or mismatched desire is one of the most common challenges couples face in intimate relationships,… Read More »Understanding Mismatched Libido and A Sexless Marriage

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