How to Have Spontaneous Sex
Spontaneous Sex: The Fantasy of Desire Without Effort Ahhh, spontaneous sex. The phrase alone conjures images of youth, tropical holidays, cocktails on the beach, stolen… Read More »How to Have Spontaneous Sex
Spontaneous Sex: The Fantasy of Desire Without Effort Ahhh, spontaneous sex. The phrase alone conjures images of youth, tropical holidays, cocktails on the beach, stolen… Read More »How to Have Spontaneous Sex
Erectile dysfunction can be about much more than getting or keeping an erection. For some men, erectile dysfunction begins with a physical change. For others,… Read More »Erectile Dysfunction and Male Performance Anxiety: When Sex Starts to Feel Like a Test
Male Performance Anxiety in NYC: Sexual Performance Anxiety, Erectile Dysfunction and Treatment Male performance anxiety can make sex feel like a test. You may want… Read More »Sexual Performance Anxiety, Erectile Dysfunction and Treatment
Wanting Sex and Liking Sex Are Two Different Things You can like sex and not feel like having it at the same time. That contradiction… Read More »Why You Can Like Sex and Still Not Want It
The Orgasm Gap. Why Women Aren’t Having Orgasms IÂ have orgasms alone, but not during sex with my partner… what’s wrong with me? It’s one… Read More »Why Can’t I Come During Sex? The Orgasm Gap and Women
(Your orgasm isn’t a mystery — it’s a pattern.) Many people assume that if they can orgasm alone but not with a partner, something must… Read More »Why You Can Orgasm Alone But Not With a Partner (And What to Do About It)
Why So Many Women Don’t Know What They Want in Bed: and The Question That Actually Helps You know what car you want. You know… Read More »How To Ask For What You Want In Bed When You Don’t Know What You Want
The Unspoken Work: Emotional Labor in Sex and Why It’s Quietly Killing Desire There’s a particular kind of exhaustion that doesn’t show up in any… Read More »Emotional Labor in Sex and Why It’s Quietly Killing Desire
At The Edge Of Wanting: Women, Queering Desire, And The Courage To Look There’s a moment many women and queer people recognize but rarely say… Read More »At The Edge Of Wanting: Women, Queering Desire, And The Courage To Look
I Don’t like Sex. Am I Normal? Hi Cyndi, I don’t like sex. I would like to want to have to have sex but as… Read More »I Don’t Like Sex; Am I Normal?