How to Touch Like You Mean It!
How to Touch Your Lover(Like You Mean It!)One of the most basic forms of human connection is touch. For so many of us it’s hard… Read More »How to Touch Like You Mean It!
How to Touch Your Lover(Like You Mean It!)One of the most basic forms of human connection is touch. For so many of us it’s hard… Read More »How to Touch Like You Mean It!
Less Sex, Bad Sex & Sex Tech Recent stats show that young people are having less sex than any generation before them. Despite the so… Read More »Less Sex, Bad Sex & Sex Tech
What does a sex therapist do?I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job is.… Read More »What does a sex therapist do?
Getting Triggered in Relationships The word ‘triggered’ occurs frequently on social media. Originally the word was used in clinical contexts to describe responses arising… Read More »Getting Triggered in Relationships
How We Unlearn PleasureObserve children playing outdoors. Whether together or alone, they are totally engaged and at-one with the moment they are experiencing. They let their… Read More »How We Unlearn Pleasure
The (short) history of the PenisThe penis has been enormously influential in shaping our beliefs and the cultural history of the world. Revered and feared in societies across the… Read More »The (short) History of the Penis
Hook ups, dating & pleasure in the age of AnsariYou have to have been living under a rock to have missed the conversations around rape… Read More »Hook ups, dating & pleasure in the age of Ansari
GETTING REAL ABOUT CONSENTConsent is a buzz word these days. In sexuality education and sex positive circles it’s thrown around with gay abandon, while its… Read More »Getting real about consent
Sex, Death & Erotic Values“When we first got together I really enjoyed sex with my partner, but over time it started to change. I didn’t… Read More »Sex, Death and Erotic Values
UNDERSTANDING YOUR EROTIC VALUESMany relationships counselors will talk about ‘relationship values’. Relationship values are what motivates us to find fulfillment in a relationship. For example,… Read More »Understanding Your Erotic Values