Great Questions to Ask on a Date
The Art of Connection: Great Questions to Ask on a Date First dates can feel like a high-wire act. You want to be interesting without… Read More »Great Questions to Ask on a Date
The Art of Connection: Great Questions to Ask on a Date First dates can feel like a high-wire act. You want to be interesting without… Read More »Great Questions to Ask on a Date
How Patriarchy Conquered Desire, and How To Get It Back If your body says no, but your mind says you should, that’s not desire. That’s… Read More »How Patriarchy Conquered Desire (and How To Get It Back)
Unlearning Patriarchal Desire: The Myth Of Women, Men and Wanting When we talk about unlearning patriarchy in the context of desire, we’re talking about more… Read More »Unlearning Desire : The Myth Of Women, Men and Wanting
The Bedroom Battlefield: How Anger Transforms Intimacy In the quiet moments after a fight, when bodies that once moved toward each other now lie rigid… Read More »How Anger Transforms Intimacy
The Quiet Ache: Understanding Loneliness and Shame in Relationships One of the most disorienting experiences in life is feeling profoundly lonely while lying next to… Read More »Understanding Loneliness and Shame in Relationships
The Hollow Pursuit: When Emptiness Drives Our Sexual Lives There’s a particular kind of loneliness that doesn’t announce itself with tears or obvious despair. It’s… Read More »When Emptiness Drives Our Sexual Lives
Polyamory Myth-Busting: Separating Facts From Fear Polyamory has become more visible in recent years, yet the misconceptions surrounding it are still abundant. Much of what… Read More »Polyamory Myth-Busting
The Science of Responsive Desire: Understanding Low Desire and Mismatched Desire For a long time, we were taught to think about sexual desire as something… Read More »The Science of Responsive Desire
The Psychology of Kinks and Fantasies Understanding Desire With Curiosity, Not Judgment Kinks and sexual fantasies are often misunderstood, despite being a completely normal part… Read More »The Psychology of Kinks and Fantasies
What Does a Sex Therapist Do? I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job… Read More »What Does a Sex Therapist Do?