Sex Therapist NYC
Sexologist
& Couple's/ Relationship Counselor.
I help people have better sex, rediscover desire & enjoy richer, deeper relationships.
Stop Struggling Start Loving
Sex Coach New York City & Online
Create A Life Worth Loving
If you’re struggling with sex, desire, intimacy, relationships, or menopause, you’ve come to the right place. I’m a sex therapist and somatic sexologist in NYC offering online sex therapy, couples counseling, and relationship therapy for low desire, mismatched desire, communication struggles, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, queer relationships, and kink.
Our work is tailored to you—your body, your relationships, your desires, and the life you actually want to live. Together, we’ll explore what’s getting in the way of the sex, intimacy, connection, confidence, pleasure, and relationships you want, while developing practical skills to help you create meaningful change.
Because better sex and better relationships aren’t just things you’re supposed to figure out on your own. They’re learnable.
A psychotherapist by training in my native Australia, I am a clinical sexologist, qualified sex coach, certified sex therapist & marriage and relationships counselor offering:
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understanding and managing desire discrepancy /mismatched desire / low libido
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counseling & coaching for individuals / relationships / sex therapy
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affirming support for queer, gender non-conforming, LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples
I serve individuals, traditional couples & people in polyamorous, kinky and non-monogamous relationships with my affirming, compassionate and no B.S. approach.
LGBTQIA+, gender expansive folks, straight identities & all faiths welcome (including no faith).
Sessions Available Online
"My mission is to create safe, affirming spaces where clients can explore their desires, challenges, and relationships without shame or judgment. True intimacy begins with honest communication, self-awareness, and compassion—both for oneself and others."
"Cyndi Darnell is a national treasure, a truly stellar, creative, intelligent dynamo of a səx and relationship therapist. She is refreshingly authentic, down-to-earth, wise, witty, and genuinely passionate about helping others discover their own unique, rich, and consciously aware səxual and erotic self."
- D. M Ortmann. New York City
Sex, When You Don't Feel Like It
The Truth About Mismatched Libido & Rediscovering Desire
From the Vatican to Vegas, From Disney to P0rnHub, we’ve been tricked into believing love and sex are like a hand in a glove, though few of us experience them that way.
Discover unshakable confidence and the best ways for you to create the most satisfying sex, but more importantly, how to keep it that way.
Sex Therapy, Relationships Counseling & Sex Coaching
Everyone needs support in creating and sustaining meaningful lives, strong relationships , empowered communities and great sex. Join me online via video from anywhere in the world.
Online Courses
Programs for individuals and partners who want to experience more pleasure, joy and empowerment. Learn how your body works, how to manage changes in intimacy and differing drives, increase connection, learn massage techniques, overcome performance anxiety, increase communication and so much more.
Events and Professional Training
Come learn with me. For laypeople and professional coaches, therapists, clinicians and teachers.
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"We - without hesitation - recommend Cyndi Darnell to everyone! Couples or singles. Cyndi will teach you and help you find that something inside yourself that you didn’t even know was missing.” – Sam
