Couple's Counseling, Sex Therapy &  Individual Coaching

Stop Struggling Start Loving

NYC & Online

"Cyndi Darnell is a national treasure, a truly stellar, creative, intelligent dynamo of a sex and relationship therapist. She is refreshingly authentic, down-to-earth, wise, witty, and genuinely passionate about helping others discover their own unique, rich, and consciously aware sexual and erotic self." - David Ortmann

Create A Life Worth Loving

If you're struggling with life, intimacy, relationships or sexuality, you've come to the right place.

Turn your life around to create the confidence, relationships, freedom, pleasure, intimacy and passion you long for. Easy connections, less struggle, deeper intimacy and great sex are right around the corner.

I'm a certified clinical sexologist & Aussie-trained counselor | sex & relationships therapist offering:

  • holistic counseling & coaching  for individuals / relationships / sex therapy 
  • trauma healing / healing the erotic
  • healing wounds from family of origin
  • somatic sexology
  • online courses for individuals & couples/ relationships 
  • coaching & counseling for couples / relationships /marriages 
  • couple's intimacy retreats in New York
  • plus online video consulting around the USA and across the world


I serve individuals, traditional couples & people in open, polyamorous, kinky and non monogamous relationships with my affirming, compassionate and no B.S. approach.

LGBTQIA & straight identities & all faiths welcome (including no faith).

Cyndi Darnell Couple's Therapist NYC

Counseling & Coaching

Everyone needs support in their sex, lives and relationships. Join me in-person in NYC or online via video from anywhere in the world.

Cyndi Darnell Sexologist NYC

Online Courses

Learn how your body works, how to manage intimacy and differing drives, increase connection, learn massage techniques, overcome performance anxiety, increase communication and so much more.

Cyndi Darnell Couple's Therapist NYC

"We - without hesitation - recommend Cyndi Darnell to everyone! Couples or singles. Cyndi will teach you and help you find that something inside yourself that you didn’t even know was missing.” – Sam

Cyndi Darnell Sex Therapist Mentor

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