Couple's Counseling, Sex Therapy & Somatic Counseling & Coaching
Stop Struggling Start Loving
NYC & Online

"Cyndi Darnell is a national treasure, a truly stellar, creative, intelligent dynamo of a sex and relationship therapist. She is refreshingly authentic, down-to-earth, wise, witty, and genuinely passionate about helping others discover their own unique, rich, and consciously aware sexual and erotic self." - David Ortmann
Create A Life Worth Loving
If you're struggling with life, intimacy, relationships or sexuality, you've come to the right place.
Turn your life around to create the confidence, relationships, freedom, pleasure, intimacy and passion you long for. Easy connections, less struggle, deeper intimacy and great sex are right around the corner.
I'm a certified clinical sexologist & Aussie-trained counselor | sex & relationships therapist offering:
- holistic, embodied counseling & coaching for individuals / relationships / sex therapy
- trauma healing / healing the erotic
- healing wounds from family of origin
- somatic sexology
- online courses for individuals & couples/ relationships
- embodied coaching & counseling for couples / relationships /marriages
- couple's intimacy retreats in New York
- plus online video consulting around the USA and across the world
I serve individuals, traditional couples & people in open, polyamorous, kinky and non monogamous relationships with my affirming, compassionate and no B.S. approach.
LGBTQIA & straight identities & all faiths welcome (including no faith).
Somatic Counseling & Coaching
Everyone needs support in creating and sustaining meaningful lives, strong relationships & empowered communities. Join me in-person in NYC or online via video from anywhere in the world.
Online Courses
Programs for individuals and partners who want to experience more pleasure, joy and empowerment. Learn how your body works, how to manage changes in intimacy and differing drives, increase connection, learn massage techniques, overcome performance anxiety, increase communication and so much more.
"We - without hesitation - recommend Cyndi Darnell to everyone! Couples or singles. Cyndi will teach you and help you find that something inside yourself that you didn’t even know was missing.” – Sam









