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Fix My Sexless Marriage

Sex Won't Fix Your Sexless Relationship, But It Might Show You What Will

  • by Cyndi
  • April 21, 2026June 15, 2026

Sex Won’t Fix Your Sexless Relationship. But It Might Show You What Will. There’s a special kind of hope that lives inside the notion that… Read More »Sex Won't Fix Your Sexless Relationship, But It Might Show You What Will

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What If You’ve Never Seen a Relationship Built on Love?

  • by Cyndi
  • April 4, 2026June 15, 2026

What If You’ve Never Seen A Relationship Built On Love? Most of us arrive at midlife carrying relationships like old luggage — overpacked, worn at… Read More »What If You’ve Never Seen a Relationship Built on Love?

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What Happens After You Name The Edge?

  • by Cyndi
  • January 25, 2026July 23, 2026

What Happens After You Name The Edge? This is part 2 of the article called At The Edge of Wanting; Women, Queer Desire and the… Read More »What Happens After You Name The Edge?

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At The Edge Of Wanting: Women, Queering Desire, And The Courage To Look

  • by Cyndi
  • January 25, 2026July 23, 2026

At The Edge Of Wanting: Women, Queering Desire, And The Courage To Look There’s a moment many women and queer people recognize but rarely say… Read More »At The Edge Of Wanting: Women, Queering Desire, And The Courage To Look

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Rethinking Sex Addiction: Your Story Doesn’t Have to Be About Being Broken

  • by Cyndi
  • January 3, 2026January 3, 2026

Maybe it started small. A few extra hours on dating apps. Porn that went from occasional to daily. Hookups that left you feeling emptier than… Read More »Rethinking Sex Addiction: Your Story Doesn’t Have to Be About Being Broken

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The Science of Responsive Desire

  • by Cyndi
  • December 1, 2025September 20, 2026

The Science of Responsive Desire: Understanding Low Desire and Mismatched Desire For a long time, we were taught to think about sexual desire as something… Read More »The Science of Responsive Desire

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Healing Sexual Shame

  • by Cyndi
  • November 30, 2025November 30, 2025

Healing Sexual Shame Understanding and Reclaiming Your Sexual Self Sexual shame is one of the most common yet least discussed experiences in human sexuality. Many… Read More »Healing Sexual Shame

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Sexual Burnout in the Age of Constant Stimulation

  • by Cyndi
  • November 28, 2025December 3, 2025

Sexual Burnout in the Age of Constant Stimulation In a world where our phones light up every few seconds and our lives are filled with… Read More »Sexual Burnout in the Age of Constant Stimulation

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What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

  • by Cyndi
  • November 28, 2025December 2, 2025

What Does a Sex Therapist Do? I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job… Read More »What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

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Understanding Mismatched Libido and A Sexless Marriage

  • by Cyndi
  • November 26, 2025September 19, 2026

Understanding Mismatched Desire: What’s Happening InĀ  Dead Bedroom? Mismatched libido or mismatched desire is one of the most common challenges couples face in intimate relationships,… Read More »Understanding Mismatched Libido and A Sexless Marriage

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