There’s a particular kind of hope that lives inside the thought if we could just have more sex, things would get better. It feels logical… Read More »Sex Won't Fix Your Sexless Relationship, But It Might Show You What Will
Mismatched Libido: What Desire in Long-Term Relationships Is Really Asking of Us “Mismatched libido” is one of the most common reasons couples feel stuck, ashamed,… Read More »Mismatched Libido What Desire in Long-Term Relationships Is Really Asking of Us
At The Edge Of Wanting: Women, Queering Desire, And The Courage To Look There’s a moment many women and queer people recognize but rarely say… Read More »At The Edge Of Wanting: Women, Queering Desire, And The Courage To Look
When Desire Fades: A Common Story of Sexual Disconnection Let me tell you about someone I’ll call Sarah, though her story could be anyone’s story.… Read More »When Desire Fades
The Art of Connection: Great Questions to Ask on a Date First dates can feel like a high-wire act. You want to be interesting without… Read More »Great Questions to Ask on a Date
Unlearning Patriarchy and Desire Here’s what nobody tells you: your desire was never meant to be yours. From the moment we’re conscious enough to understand… Read More »Unlearning Patriarchy and Desire
Healing Sexual Shame Understanding and Reclaiming Your Sexual Self Sexual shame is one of the most common yet least discussed experiences in human sexuality. Many… Read More »Healing Sexual Shame
What Does a Sex Therapist Do? I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job… Read More »What Does a Sex Therapist Do?
Understanding Mismatched Desire: Insights from Relationship Dynamics Mismatched libido or mismatched desire is one of the most common challenges couples face in intimate relationships, yet… Read More »Understanding Mismatched Libido
What You Didn’t Know About Erections The real science, the real psychology, and why erection changes don’t mean anything is “wrong with you.” When people… Read More »What You Didn’t Know About Erections