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I Don’t Like Sex. What’s Wrong With Me?

  • by Cyndi
  • January 6, 2026January 6, 2026

I don’t like sex. What’s wrong with me? Hi Cyndi, I don’t like sex. I would like to want to have to have sex but… Read More »I Don’t Like Sex. What’s Wrong With Me?

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Rethinking Sex Addiction: Your Story Doesn’t Have to Be About Being Broken

  • by Cyndi
  • January 3, 2026January 3, 2026

Maybe it started small. A few extra hours on dating apps. Porn that went from occasional to daily. Hookups that left you feeling emptier than… Read More »Rethinking Sex Addiction: Your Story Doesn’t Have to Be About Being Broken

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What to Know Before Trying Medication for Low Desire

  • by Cyndi
  • December 23, 2025December 23, 2025

Addyi vs. Vyleesi: Pros, Cons, and What to Know Before Trying Medication for Low Desire Low sexual desire is one of the most common reasons… Read More »What to Know Before Trying Medication for Low Desire

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How Patriarchy Conquered Desire

  • by Cyndi
  • December 18, 2025July 23, 2026

How Patriachy Conquered Desire, and How To Get It Back If your body says no but your mind says you should, that’s not desire. That’s… Read More »How Patriarchy Conquered Desire

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Unlearning Patriarchy and Desire

  • by Cyndi
  • December 17, 2025December 12, 2025

Unlearning Patriarchy and Desire Here’s what nobody tells you: your desire was never meant to be yours. From the moment we’re conscious enough to understand… Read More »Unlearning Patriarchy and Desire

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The Psychology of Kinks and Fantasies

  • by Cyndi
  • November 29, 2025November 28, 2025

The Psychology of Kinks and Fantasies Understanding Desire With Curiosity, Not Judgment Kinks and sexual fantasies are often misunderstood, despite being a completely normal part… Read More »The Psychology of Kinks and Fantasies

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Sexual Burnout in the Age of Constant Stimulation

  • by Cyndi
  • November 28, 2025December 3, 2025

Sexual Burnout in the Age of Constant Stimulation In a world where our phones light up every few seconds and our lives are filled with… Read More »Sexual Burnout in the Age of Constant Stimulation

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What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

  • by Cyndi
  • November 28, 2025December 2, 2025

What Does a Sex Therapist Do? I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job… Read More »What Does a Sex Therapist Do?

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Understanding Mismatched Libido

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  • November 26, 2025December 5, 2025

Understanding Mismatched Desire: Insights from Relationship Dynamics Mismatched libido or mismatched desire is one of the most common challenges couples face in intimate relationships, yet… Read More »Understanding Mismatched Libido

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Why Do I Lose Arousal Halfway Through?

  • by Cyndi
  • November 25, 2025July 23, 2026

Why Do I Lose Arousal Halfway Through Sex? The real reasons your body stops responding—and what it’s trying to tell you. One of the most… Read More »Why Do I Lose Arousal Halfway Through?

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