Why You Can Like Sex and Still Not Want It
Wanting Sex and Liking Sex Are Two Different Things You can like sex and not feel like having it at the same time. That contradiction… Read More »Why You Can Like Sex and Still Not Want It
Wanting Sex and Liking Sex Are Two Different Things You can like sex and not feel like having it at the same time. That contradiction… Read More »Why You Can Like Sex and Still Not Want It
Sex Won’t Fix Your Sexless Relationship. But It Might Show You What Will. There’s a special kind of hope that lives inside the notion that… Read More »Sex Won't Fix Your Sexless Relationship, But It Might Show You What Will
Maybe it started small. A few extra hours on dating apps. Porn that went from occasional to daily. Hookups that left you feeling emptier than… Read More »Rethinking Sex Addiction: Your Story Doesn’t Have to Be About Being Broken
How Patriachy Conquered Desire, and How To Get It Back If your body says no but your mind says you should, that’s not desire. That’s… Read More »How Patriarchy Conquered Desire
Sexual Burnout in the Age of Constant Stimulation In a world where our phones light up every few seconds and our lives are filled with… Read More »Sexual Burnout in the Age of Constant Stimulation
What Does a Sex Therapist Do? I get some very funny reactions when I am at dinner parties and people find out what my job… Read More »What Does a Sex Therapist Do?
What You Didn’t Know About Erections The real science, the real psychology, and why erection changes don’t mean anything is “wrong with you.” When people… Read More »What You Didn’t Know About Erections
What You Need to Know About Arousal A guide to understanding your body, your desire, and the science of getting turned on Most people grow… Read More »What You Need To Know About Arousal
What They Never Taught You About Orgasms (And Why That Isn’t Your Fault) Most of us grew up learning almost nothing about pleasure. We learned… Read More »What They Never Taught You About Orgasms