Polyamory, Non-Monogamy & Open Relationships Therapy Counseling NYC

Alternative & Non -Traditional Relationships including Kink & BDSM

Polyamory & Ethical Non-Monogamy, Alternative Relationships Therapy and Counseling NYC

Respectful. Affirming. Relationship-Centered.

Navigating consensual non-monogamy (CNM), ethical non-monogamy (ENM), open relationships, alternative relationships or other kinds of kink and power-based relationships can be tricky in a world not built for our communities.

Whether you're just beginning to explore or have been practicing for years, non-traditional, alternative relationships can be both complex and deeply rewarding, nourishing and sustainable. Therapy, counseling and coaching supports individuals, couples, polycules and kinksters seeking guidance, clarity, insight and conflict resolution skills in the context of open relationships, polyamory, and other forms of alternative relationships, non-monogamy and power-based, kink affirming relationships.

 

Polyamory, enm, non monogamy counseling NYC

Who is This For?

These counseling and coaching sessions are open to:

  • Individuals exploring or questioning monogamy

  • Couples opening their relationship for the first time

  • Established polycules navigating communication or boundaries

  • People in Kink & BDSM oriented Relationships
  • People healing from past relational trauma or jealousy

  • Those needing support with compersion, agreements, or relationship transitions

Cyndi Darnell is a sexologist and sex therapist in NYC with an Innovative Approach: Integrating traditional therapeutic methods with modern, inclusive frameworks, she provides tailored solutions that honor each client’s unique needs.

What is Non-Monogamy?

Non-monogamy or ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is an umbrella term for relationships that encourage consensual  sexual and / or emotional intimacy with more than one partner. This includes structures like:

  • Polyamory

  • Open relationships

  • Relationship anarchy

  • Swinging

  • Solo polyamory

  • Hierarchical and non-hierarchical relationship models

I understand that each person and each relationship constellation is unique—there's no one right way to do non-monogamy or any consensual adult relationship. I meet you where you are, without judgment or assumptions.

Polyamory ENM counseling therapy NYC

 

Relationship Counseling Can Help With:

  • Improving communication skills across partners

  • Navigating jealousy, insecurity, or fear of abandonment

  • Setting and respecting boundaries

  • Creating relationship agreements that work for everyone involved

  • Understanding attachment styles in non-monogamous contexts

  • Addressing power imbalances or relational patterns

  • Deconstructing monogamy-based assumptions that may no longer serve you

  • Processing changes, breakups, or shifts in connection

My Approach

I offer a sex-positive, kink-aware, LGBTQIA+ affirming, and trauma-informed space for you to explore and grow in your relationship(s). I am  familiar with most non-traditional relationship models and I am committed to:

  • Cultural humility

  • Ongoing education in CNM/ENM dynamics

  • Validating your identity and relationship choices

Whether you're struggling with conflict or simply want to deepen your connection and communication, I am here to support your growth.