Queer Sex & Relationship Counseling and Therapy NYC

What Is Queer Relationship & Sex Counseling and Therapy?

Queer Relationship and Sex Therapy offers a safe, supportive space for LGBTQIA+, sex worker, kink-oreinted individuals, couples, and polycules to explore identity, connection, intimacy, and desire—without shame or assumptions.

Whether you’re

• navigating the complexities of queer relationships
• exploring gender or sexual identity
• healing from trauma
• seeking help navigating the stigma of sex work within a relationship or alone
• or longing for a more fulfilling sex life

queer affirming sex therapy,  counseling and coaching can provide the tools and support you need to thrive.

Queer Relationships & Sex Therapy

Affirming. Inclusive. Sex-Positive.

This work centers the unique experiences of queer, trans, nonbinary, and  sex and gender-diverse people in the context of relationships and sexuality. It challenges heteronormative, patriarchal, capitalist and cisnormative frameworks, creating room for:

• All gender identities and sexual orientations

• Diverse relationship styles (monogamy, polyamory, relationship anarchy, etc.)

• Varied expressions of intimacy and desire

• Intersectional experiences, including neurodiversity, race, disability, class, and culture

I believe your identity, pleasure, and relationships are valid and worth exploring fully and without apology.

Who Is This For?

• LGBTQIA+ individuals looking for affirming, nonjudgmental support

• Queer couples navigating communication, sex, or relational dynamics

• Trans or nonbinary people exploring intimacy in affirming ways

• People healing from sexual shame, trauma, or internalized oppression

• Those curious about kink, non-monogamy, or redefining pleasure on their terms

• Sex workers and those who love them

What Can We Work On?

• Communication and conflict resolution in queer relationships

• Desire discrepancies and navigating differences in libido

• Healing from sexual or relational trauma

• Exploring gender and its role in intimacy and connection

• Cultivating self-worth, body acceptance, and sexual confidence

• Understanding and expressing authentic desires

• Reclaiming pleasure in the aftermath of shame, stigma, or religious trauma

• Navigating coming out, queer identity development, or transitioning in the context of relationships

My Approach

I offer:

• Queer and trans affirming care
• Sex-positive, sex work affirming and kink-aware support
• Trauma-informed, culturally responsive counseling
• A collaborative, non-pathologizing approach
• An inclusive space where all parts of you are welcome

I recognize the impact of systemic oppression on personal and relational wellbeing and work from a framework of liberation, authenticity, and consent.

Creating More Stability and Safety In Complex Times

Queer relationship and sex therapy isn't about 'fixing' you. It's about helping you understand yourself more deeply, find your center, enhance your strengths, embolden and empower your community/ies, communicate more clearly, love more fully, and experience intimacy and joy in ways that feel true to who you are.