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Cyndi Darnell, one of New York City's most renowned sex therapists, sexologists, and couples counselors, continues to set new standards in the field of sexual wellness and relationship counseling. With a unique, holistic approach that bridges science, psychology, and compassionate coaching, Darnell has become a pivotal figure for individuals and couples seeking to transform their intimate lives. As an internationally recognized expert, Cyndi Darnell combines clinical expertise with an inclusive, nonjudgmental perspective, empowering clients to overcome challenges related to intimacy, communication, and sexual satisfaction. Her innovative methods focus not only on the physical aspects of sexuality but also on the emotional and psychological factors that contribute to fulfilling relationships.

Rekindling The Flame

by Cyndi
October 23, 2019January 28, 2023

Rekindling The Flame …when life gets in the wayDate nights are great.They can remind you of why you fell in love way back in the beginning,… Read More »Rekindling The Flame

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How to Touch Like You Mean It!

by Cyndi
April 26, 2019January 28, 2023

How to Touch Your Lover(Like You Mean It!)One of the most basic forms of human connection is touch. For so many of us it’s hard… Read More »How to Touch Like You Mean It!

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How We Unlearn Pleasure

by Cyndi
October 10, 2018January 28, 2023

How We Unlearn PleasureObserve children playing outdoors. Whether together or alone, they are totally engaged and at-one with the moment they are experiencing. They let their… Read More »How We Unlearn Pleasure

Where did my sex drive go?

by Cyndi
May 16, 2018January 28, 2023

I’ve Lost My LibidoHi Cyndi, I am 23 years old and I’m facing a difficult moment sexually because I have lost my libido. I have… Read More »Where did my sex drive go?

Getting real about consent

by Cyndi
November 16, 2017March 9, 2020

GETTING REAL ABOUT CONSENTConsent is a buzz word these days. In sexuality education and sex positive circles it’s thrown around with gay abandon, while its… Read More »Getting real about consent

Sex, Death and Erotic Values

by Cyndi
October 25, 2017January 28, 2023

Sex, Death & Erotic Values“When we first got together I really enjoyed sex with my partner, but over time it started to change. I didn’t… Read More »Sex, Death and Erotic Values

Understanding Your Erotic Values

by Cyndi
October 25, 2017January 28, 2023

UNDERSTANDING YOUR EROTIC VALUESMany relationships counselors will talk about ‘relationship values’. Relationship values are what motivates us to find fulfillment in a relationship. For example,… Read More »Understanding Your Erotic Values

VD in Wartime Australia

by Cyndi
September 7, 2017March 10, 2020

VD in Wartime AustraliaLast night I was lucky enough to be a guest at Dr Ian Denham’s enlightening account of the sexual plight of the… Read More »VD in Wartime Australia

When Love Hurts…

by Cyndi
February 8, 2017March 10, 2020

When Love Hurts…My post just before the holidays late last year was a reflection on the struggles of having unresolved feelings during ‘happy’ times. When… Read More »When Love Hurts…

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Women & That ‘Orgasm’ Problem

by Cyndi
November 24, 2016April 9, 2020

Women & That ‘Orgasm’ ProblemOne of the most frequently asked questions I get from women in my practice is about their ability to orgasm.Orgasm is… Read More »Women & That ‘Orgasm’ Problem