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# Sex and Relationship Therapy NYC

NYC sex therapist and somatic sexologist specializing in low desire, desire mismatch, couples intimacy, polyamory, non-monogamous relationships, and kink-affirming therapy. In-person & online sessions.

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## Posts

- [Fawning, Desire, and the Silent Bargains We Make in Bed](https://cyndidarnell.com/fawning-desire-and-the-silent-bargains-we-make-in-bed/) - Why do we use sex to keep the peace in relationships? Explore how fawning, attachment, & self-worth shape desire, and what changes after noticing the pattern.
- [Why Sex Feels Empty Even When Nothing Went Wrong](https://cyndidarnell.com/why-sex-feels-empty-even-when-nothing-went-wrong/) - We focus on being desireable, but almost nothing into learning how to actually BE WITH someone, once they want you. Let's explore that.
- [Mismatched Libido What Desire in Long-Term Relationships Is Really Asking of Us](https://cyndidarnell.com/mismatched-libido-what-desire-in-long-term-relationships-is-really-asking-of-us/) - Mismatched libido isn’t a failure of love or attraction. Learn why desire changes in long-term relationships and how stress, safety, and meaning shape sex.
- [Sex Won't Fix Your Sexless Relationship, But It Might Show You What Will](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-fix-a-sexless-relationship/) - When more sex doesn’t fix your relationship, what’s really going on? Explore why sex becomes a stand-in for deeper disconnection—and what actually heals it.
- [When Emptiness Drives Our Sexual Lives](https://cyndidarnell.com/when-emptiness-drives-our-sexual-lives/) - There's a kind of loneliness that exists even in sex —perhaps especially in sex —when we're physically intimate, while remaining emotionally distant.
- [Why Do I Lose Arousal Halfway Through?](https://cyndidarnell.com/why-do-i-lose-arousal-halfway-through/) - “Why Do I Lose Arousal Halfway Through?”The real reasons your body checks out—and what to do about it.Losing arousal halfway through is one of the most common sexual concerns, and yet most people feel embarrassed or confused when it happens. The truth? It’s usually not a mystery—it’s biology, psychology, and context working together.Here’s what’s actually
- [What If You've Never Seen a Relationship Built on Love?](https://cyndidarnell.com/what-if-youve-never-seen-a-relationship-built-on-love/) - Most relationships run on fear, not love. Here's what it takes to build something different — especially when you're starting over in midlife
- [How To Ask For What You Want In Bed When You Don’t Know What You Want](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-ask-for-what-you-want-in-bed-when-you-dont-know-what-you-want/) - How to ask for what you want in bed when you don’t know what you want, what's really behind the gap, the question that changes the entire game
- [The Question That Changes Everything](https://cyndidarnell.com/the-question-that-changes-everything/) - Most of us aren't lonely because we lack people. We're lonely because we've never learned to reach the ones we have. Here's how to change that.
- [Why Fantasy Love Feels Better Than the Real Thing](https://cyndidarnell.com/why-fantasy-love-feels-better-than-the-real-thing/) - The reason fantasy love feels so good is because it's solving a problem. Just not the one you think it is. Learn to create relationships that last
- [8 Ways To Make Your Relationships Better Than Ever](https://cyndidarnell.com/8-ways-to-make-your-relationships-better-than-ever/) - Relationship advice that skips the clichés. Eight principles for staying genuinely connected — not just keeping the peace.
- [The Capacity Gap: Why Willingness Isn't Enough to Sustain Your Relationship](https://cyndidarnell.com/the-capacity-gap-why-willingness-isnt-enough-to-sustain-your-relationship/) - Why is couples therapy hard when one partner has willingness but not capacity? Learn about emotional skill gaps affecting relationships & what to do about it.
- [Why Great Relationships Start With Yourself](https://cyndidarnell.com/why-great-relationships-start-with-yourself/) - The best relationships start with one you often overlook — the one with yourself. Learn why self-knowledge is the foundation of lasting love.
- [Emotional Labor in Sex and Why It's Quietly Killing Desire](https://cyndidarnell.com/emotional-labor-in-sex-and-why-its-quietly-killing-desire/) - Emotional labor in sex silently kills desire. Learn how managing your partner's feelings during intimacy erodes your own—and how to reclaim your want.
- [Understanding Loneliness and Shame in Relationships](https://cyndidarnell.com/understanding-loneliness-and-shame-in-relationships/) - Loneliness and shame don't mean the relationship is failing. They mean you're human. The question is whether you can be human together.
- [How Do I Give My Wife An Orgasm?](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-do-i-give-my-wife-an-orgasm/) - How do I give my wife an orgasm? People find women and orgasm a mystery but this is not even close. Science has shown how women have real orgasms.
- [Why You Can Orgasm Alone But Not With a Partner (And What to Do About It)](https://cyndidarnell.com/why-you-can-orgasm-alone-but-not-with-a-partner-and-what-to-do-about-it/) - If you can finish on your own but not with a partner, you are far from alone. This is very common, and the good news is that it's very often fixable.
- [Pleasure, Grief, and Nervous System Regulation](https://cyndidarnell.com/pleasure-grief-and-nervous-system-regulation/) - Learn how pleasure and grief can coexist. Regulate your nervous system and reclaim energy while staying fully present and embodied.
- [Imagining Joy While the World Is Falling Apart](https://cyndidarnell.com/imagining-joy-while-the-world-is-falling-apart/) - What if laughing, touching, or enjoying a moment could be ethical acts? A reflection on pleasure, grief, and Audre Lorde.
- [Pleasure as Ethical Action and Resistance](https://cyndidarnell.com/pleasure-as-ethical-action-and-resistance/) - Pleasure is radical, ethical, and sustaining. Learn how joy deepens connection, community, and action, inspired by Audre Lorde’s insights.
- [At The Edge Of Wanting: Women, Queering Desire, And The Courage To Look](https://cyndidarnell.com/at-the-edge-of-wanting-women-queer-desire-and-the-courage-to-look/) - For many women & queer folks over 35 the question isn't just "How do I get my desire back?" It's 'What kind of life am I actually available for now?'
- [What Happens After You Name The Edge?](https://cyndidarnell.com/what-happens-after-you-name-the-edge/) - What Happens After You Name The Edge? This is part 2 of the article called At The Edge of Wanting; Women, Queer Desire and the Courage To Look Read that first then come back to this. Once you’ve noticed the edge—the questions you haven’t let yourself ask—the world changes immediately, even if nothing outwardly shifts.
- [The Unspoken Challenges: Understanding Men's Struggles in Modern Relationships, Friendships and Dating](https://cyndidarnell.com/the-unspoken-challenges-understanding-mens-struggles-in-modern-dating/) - While everyone faces obstacles in their romantic lives, men encounter specific struggles that deserve honest discussion. Let's take a look at some of these.
- [The Vital Importance of Friendship: Why Strong Bonds Beyond Romance Matter](https://cyndidarnell.com/the-vital-importance-of-friendship-why-strong-bonds-beyond-romance-matter/) - Strong friendships remind us that we arenot alone. We are complex beings with varied interests and ways of connecting who are worthy of love in many forms.
- [Sex and Grief: Navigating Intimacy After Loss](https://cyndidarnell.com/sex-and-grief-navigating-intimacy-after-loss/) - Grief strips us downto our most vulnerable selves. It demands everything—the pain, but also the entirety of being human including desire, pleasure & connection.
- [Starting Over. Dating After Divorce in NYC](https://cyndidarnell.com/starting-over-dating-after-divorce-in-nyc/) - Dating after divorce in NYC is complicated. You've been through a big change and you're figuring out who you are now in a city that can feel overwhelming.
- [When Desire Fades](https://cyndidarnell.com/when-desire-fades/) - The loss of sexual desire is not a moral failing. It's information. The question isn't What's wrong with me? but What is this teaching me about what I need?
- [I Don't Like Sex. What's Wrong With Me?](https://cyndidarnell.com/i-dont-like-sex-whats-wrong-with-me/) - There are many reasons people dislike sex. Not liking sex is not the end of the world, but it is something worth exploring.
- [How Patriachy Conquered Desire](https://cyndidarnell.com/reclaiming-desire-and-unlearning-patriarchy/) - Unlearn patriarchal scripts shaping desire. Rebuild intimacy through agency, consent, and nervous system safety with trauma-informed virtual therapy in NYC.
- [Rethinking Sex Addiction: Your Story Doesn't Have to Be About Being Broken](https://cyndidarnell.com/rethinking-sex-addiction-your-story-doesnt-have-to-be-about-being-broken/) - A few extra hours on dating apps. Porn that went from occasional to daily. Hookups leaving you feeling empty. And suddenly, you're wondering, Am I a sex addict?
- [What to Know Before Trying Medication for Low Desire](https://cyndidarnell.com/what-to-know-before-trying-medication-for-low-desire/) - Addyi and Vyleesi are FDA-approved options for low desire — with real pros and real limits. Desire isn’t mechanical. It’s relational, embodied, and contextual.
- [Great Questions to Ask on a Date](https://cyndidarnell.com/great-questions-to-ask-on-a-date/) - Great questions to ask on a date and how to keep the conversation flowing. Communication skills create connection and confidence for all kinds of relationships.
- [How Anger Transforms Intimacy](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-anger-transforms-intimacy/) - Gendered scripts impact how we learn to process emotions like anger. Left unattended anger becomes resentment and corrodes relationships.
- [Stop Dating the Same Type of Person](https://cyndidarnell.com/why-you-keep-dating-the-same-type-of-person/) - This phenomenon is more common than we realize, & understanding why it happens can be the first step toward breaking free from destructive relationship cycles.
- [Polyamory Myth-Busting](https://cyndidarnell.com/polyamory-myth-busting/) - Polyamory has become more visible in recent years, yet the misconceptions surrounding it are still abundant. Lets do some myth-busting here
- [Understanding Anger and Rage](https://cyndidarnell.com/understanding-anger-and-rage/) - Most self-help literature treats anger & rage as interchangeable, but King reveals a critical difference that changes everything about how we approach healing.
- [How to Be Yourself While Being Connected](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-be-yourself-while-being-connected/) - So what does healthy intimacy actually look like in practice? Healthy relationship require skills and practice. Skills like space, courage and resilience.
- [Unlearning Patriarchy and Desire](https://cyndidarnell.com/unlearning-patriarchy-and-desire/) - Patriarchy shapes desire more deeply than most people realize. Not just what we want sexually — but what we believe we’re allowed to want.
- [Attunement Is The Intimacy Skill You Never Knew You Needed](https://cyndidarnell.com/attunement-is-the-intimacy-skill-you-never-knew-you-needed/) - Attunement is the critical relationship skill we all need. Attunement means to be deeply in tune with another person—emotionally, physically, and cognitively.
- [How To Develop Relational Intelligence](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-developing-relational-intelligence/) - Relational intelligence is a skill you develop, not something you are born being good at. Anyone can learn to have better relationships. Here's how.
- [Beyond the Bedroom: How Polyamory Connects to Broader Social Contexts](https://cyndidarnell.com/beyond-the-bedroom-how-polyamory-connects-to-broader-social-contexts/) - Our relationships are microcosms of the world around us. How do we manage ourselves and our relationships without looking at the container they exist within?
- [Vulnerability, The Last Taboo?](https://cyndidarnell.com/vulnerability-the-last-taboo/) - How do we maintain connection in relationships?
- [Understanding Mismatched Libido](https://cyndidarnell.com/understanding-mismatched-libido/) - Mismatched libido is the most common . Learn to manage different levels of sexual desire, without creating tension, frustration, or feelings of rejection.
- [Ghosting and Breadcrumbing in Modern Dating](https://cyndidarnell.com/ghosting-and-breadcrumbing-in-modern-dating/) - In the age of dating apps and instant messaging, finding connection has never been easier—or more confusing. Why does it happen and what can we do about it?
- [5 Myths That Ruin Your Sex Life](https://cyndidarnell.com/5-myths-that-ruin-your-sex-life/) - Your libido is responsive to your life, not a measure of your worth. Arousal is a system, not a personality trait. Discover desire, pleasure, and connection
- [What You Need To Know About Arousal](https://cyndidarnell.com/what-you-need-to-know-about-arousal/) - Learning about arousal is an important part of developing your erotic intelligence. Discover what you need to know here to improve your sex life today.
- [How to Increase Your Sexual Desire and Boost Your Sex Drive](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-increase-your-sexual-desire-and-boost-your-sex-drive/) - Increase your sexual desire. Your sex drive is personal, complex, and deeply shaped by the context of your life. And most importantly—desire can be cultivated.
- [How To Express Yourself Without Conflict](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-express-yourself-without-conflict/) - The good news is that with the right approach, you can communicate what you need in ways that bring you closer together rather than drive you apart.
- [How to Survive A Breakup](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-survive-a-breakup/) - A broken heart isn't just a catch-phrase. There's real science behind why heartbreak hurts so much, and understanding it can help you get through it.
- [Navigating Romantic Breakups](https://cyndidarnell.com/navigating-romantic-breakups/) - Surviving breakups is hard. It's reckoning with the parts of us that require care & inquiry. Here I help break down why break ups hurt so much & what to do.
- [Cultivating Relational Intelligence](https://cyndidarnell.com/cultivating-relational-intelligence/) - Awakening relational intelligence changes the direction of our lives. Relational Intelligence can be learnt. Its not innate. Learn the skills.
- [Sexual Burnout in the Age of Constant Stimulation](https://cyndidarnell.com/sexual-burnout/) - Loss of interest in sex is sometimes not about low libido. Sometimes you are experiencing sexual burnout. Learn about sexual burnout and how to address it.
- [The Science of Responsive Desire](https://cyndidarnell.com/the-science-of-responsive-desire/) - Responsive desire is a completly normal desire style that is oftn misunderstood as low desire. Learn the difference and how to navigate mismatched desire.
- [Common Struggles With Polyamory and How to Handle Them](https://cyndidarnell.com/common-struggles-with-polyamory-and-how-to-handle-them/) - When love multiplies, so do the challenges, lets take a closer look at what might be going on with polyamory and non-monogamy
- [What Does a Sex Therapist Do?](https://cyndidarnell.com/what-does-a-sex-therapist-do/) - What does a sex therapist do? And how do you choose one? Finding a good fit is important and not all sex therapists are the same.
- [Healing Sexual Shame](https://cyndidarnell.com/healing-sexual-shame/) - Sexual shame is one of the most common yet least discussed experiences in human sexuality. Shame thrives in isolation. The antidote is connection.
- [5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure Tonight](https://cyndidarnell.com/5-ways-to-increase-your-pleasure-tonight/) - 5 Ways to Increase Your Pleasure Tonight In my practice, I meet many people, especially women who struggle with their sexual pleasure. After all, we live in a culture that really doesn’t value and prioritize pleasure in any way, so sometimes it’s difficult to know where to start. But the truth is, it doesn’t have
- [The Psychology of Kinks and Fantasies](https://cyndidarnell.com/the-psychology-of-kinks-and-fantasies/) - Kinks and sexual fantasies are often misunderstood, yet are normal part of human sexuality. Shame is common but neednt be. Read the latest on kinks & fantasies
- [Why You Need A Sex Therapist](https://cyndidarnell.com/why-you-need-a-sex-therapist/) - Many people wonder “Is something wrong with me?” Having support to understand your sexuality is crucial. That's what I am here for to guide, support and educate
- [How to Initiate Sex](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-initiate-sex/) - Initiate sex in ways that will invite your partner to say YES!
- [Why You Should Consider Seeing a Sex Therapist](https://cyndidarnell.com/why-you-should-consider-seeing-a-sex-therapist/) - Sex is important. It's tied to pleasure, connection, identity, & emotional well-being. But it’s also one of the most challenging issues to talk about openly.
- [Awakening Somatic Erotic Embodiment](https://cyndidarnell.com/awakening-somatic-erotic-embodiment/) - Discovering sexual embodiment is an important skill in life. Enhancing your relationship to yourself helps you have deeper relationships with others
- [Sexy Check-In Questions for Couples](https://cyndidarnell.com/sexy-check-in-questions-for-couples/) - 🔥 Sexy Check-In Questions for Couples Warm the connection. Turn up the heat. Invite desire. ✨ Emotional Intimacy (the foreplay most people forget) What’s one thing you felt loved by this week? What’s something I did that made you feel close to me? Where do you feel most connected to me lately? What’s one emotional
- [What They Never Taught You About Orgasms](https://cyndidarnell.com/what-they-never-taught-you-about-orgasms/) - Many people struggle to experience reliable orgasms. Learn what you should have learnt about orgasm in school, but never did!
- [What You Didn’t Know About Erections](https://cyndidarnell.com/what-you-didnt-know-about-erections/) - What You Didn’t Know About Erections The real science, the real psychology, and why erection changes don’t mean anything is “wrong with you.” When people talk about erections, they usually talk about performance, virility, or masculinity.No wonder so many people feel anxious about their sexual response — and anxiety is the number one thing that
- [Elevate Your Relationships: 10 Expert Tips for Healthy Polyamory and Non-Monogamy](https://cyndidarnell.com/elevate-your-relationships-10-expert-tips-for-healthy-polyamory-and-non-monogamy/) - Practicing open relationships is enriching & requires strong communication, trust, & self-awareness. Here are 10 tips for successful polyamory and non-monogamy
- [How To Create More Intimacy](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-create-more-intimacy/) - Learn how to create more intimacy. Good sex is a mix of communication, understanding your bodies, & being open to exploring new things together.
- [Rekindling The Flame](https://cyndidarnell.com/rekindling-the-flame/) - Date nights are great. Except for when they're not. How do you maintain passion in a relationship when you barely have time to breathe?
- [How Can I Get More Out Of My Sex Life?](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-can-i-get-more-out-of-my-sex-life/) - Many struggle to have satisfying sex but you'll be surprised to know a few changes can really change so much.
- [How To Fix Mismatched Libido and Rediscover Desire](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-fix-mismatched-libido-and-rediscover-desire/) - Mismatched sex drives and low libido needn't destroy your relationship Learn how to fix low libido and rekindle the spark in your relationship
- [How to Understand Your Sexual Fantasies](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-understand-yoru-sexual-fantasies/) - How to Understand Your Sexual Fantasies. What do they mean? What do they tell us and what if yours are different to your partner's?
- [On Wanting...and Being Wanted](https://cyndidarnell.com/on-wanting-and-being-wanted/) - On Wanting & Being Wanted In disconnected relationships, partners treat each other as a burden, an obligation, a chore or errand. They cease to see each other as the individuals that caught their attention and once-upon-a-time, dazzled them with excitement and possibility. Over time, that excitement turns to disconnect; boredom, frustration, loneliness and even resentment.
- [How To Have Healthy Relationships](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-have-healthy-relationships/) - Learn to have great relationships on Valentine's Day
- [How to Have Spontaneous Sex](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-have-spontaneous-sex/) - Why spontaneous sex is so important and what you can do about it.
- [How to Touch Like You Mean It!](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-touch-like-you-mean-it/) - Imagine experiencing touch in a way in a way that transformed you forever. That happened to me.
- [Navigating Casual Sex - It ain't what you do, it's the way that you do it.](https://cyndidarnell.com/navigating-casual-sex-it-aint-what-you-do-its-the-way-that-you-do-it/) - 5 tips for making sense of casual sex and getting off when you're getting on with it.
- [Women & That 'Orgasm' Problem](https://cyndidarnell.com/women-that-orgasm-problem/) - Why can't I have orgasms?
- [How To Improve Communication In The Bedroom](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-improve-communication-in-the-bedroom/) - How to improve communication in the bedroom. Everyone knows communication is the key to great sex, but what to do when you're shy, awkward or embarassed.
- [From Resistance to Connection: Reclaiming Pleasure in a Busy World](https://cyndidarnell.com/reclaiming-pleasure-in-a-busy-world/) - From Resistance to Connection: Reclaiming Pleasure in a Busy World is the key to better sex, richer relationships and avoiding burnout.
- [How To Have Better Sex](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-have-better-sex-2/) - NYC sex therapist and somatic sexologist specializing in low desire, desire mismatch, couples intimacy, polyamory, non-monogamous relationships, and kink-affirming therapy. In-person & online sessions. 10 Surprising Hacks To Have Better Sex for stressed out busy NYC couples. Learn to make sex easier
- [How To Have Great Sex](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-have-great-sex/) - Curious about how to have great sex? Good news, you can learn!
- [Why Can't I Come During Sex?](https://cyndidarnell.com/why-cant-i-come-during-sex/) - Why can't I come during sex with my partner? | Learn to orgasm with a partner
- [How Boundaries Improve Your Relationship & Sex Life](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-boundaries-improve-your-relationship-and-sex-life/) - Many of us do not know that we even have a boundary until it’s been crossed. Learn How boundaries can help improve your relationships and sex life.
- [Reigniting Intimacy: How Sex Therapy Can Transform Your Relationship](https://cyndidarnell.com/reigniting-intimacy-how-sex-therapy-can-transform-your-relationship/) - Reigniting Intimacy. How sex therapy can transform your relationship, increase desire and improve communication. Open minded affirming sexology for open minded
- [How to Rekindle The Spark in Your Relationship](https://cyndidarnell.com/rekindle-the-spark-in-your-relationship/) - Learn how to rekindle the spark in your relationship to create more desire, more attraction to your partner and better connection
- [The Desire Myth](https://cyndidarnell.com/the-desire-myth/) - Freedom of choice is a great value to many of us, except when it comes to sex. So if we don't want sex, why do we freak out about our low desire?
- [Why Don't I Have Great Sex?](https://cyndidarnell.com/why-dont-i-have-great-sex/) - Learn how to have enjoyable sex.
- [Understanding Your Erotic Values](https://cyndidarnell.com/understanding-your-erotic-values/) - How do your erotic values affect your sex life?
- [Sex, Death and Erotic Values](https://cyndidarnell.com/mismatched-libido-and-erotic-values/) - Sex, Death & Erotic Values“When we first got together I really enjoyed sex with my partner, but over time it started to change. I didn’t hate it, not at all, I just wanted it less often than him. There were other ways of connecting that I got more from and we just cruised along for
- [Erectile Dysfunction. How hard can it be?](https://cyndidarnell.com/erectile-dysfunction-how-hard-can-it-be/) - Losing your erection is not the problem you think it is.
- [Where did my sex drive go?](https://cyndidarnell.com/female-low-libido/) - What happened to my libido?
- [How We Unlearn Pleasure](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-have-more-pleasure/) - Pleasure matters
- [Getting Triggered in Relationships](https://cyndidarnell.com/getting-triggered-in-relationships/) - How do I stop our triggers destroying my relationships?
- [How to Make Sex Last Longer](https://cyndidarnell.com/how-to-make-sex-last-longer/) - Change the way you experience sex by slowing it down and gaining more control over your pleasure
- [Deepening Connection With Your Partner](https://cyndidarnell.com/deepening-connection-with-your-partner/) - How to thrive in an intimate partnership
- [I Cheated. Now What?](https://cyndidarnell.com/what-to-do-when-you-cheated/) - So You Cheated. What Should You Do When You've Had An Affair
- [My Partner Cheated. Now What?](https://cyndidarnell.com/my-partner-cheated-now-what/) - Your partner cheated on you. What happens now?
- [Sex and The Vagus Nerve](https://cyndidarnell.com/sex-and-the-vagus-nerve/) - Sex & The Vagus Nerve Learn how working with body can reduce tension and help you have better sex. Many of us feel uncomfortable about sex. After all we liv in a culture that doesn't respect it and doesn't teach us much, but instead tells us it's natural - we get tricked into thinking there's nothing
- [Rough Sex  Anyone?](https://cyndidarnell.com/rough-sex-anyone/) - Do you enjoy rough sex? Is it dangerous and what kind of people enjoy it the most? Can you be a feminist and enjoy rough sex with men?
- [Why Do Break Ups Hurt So Much?](https://cyndidarnell.com/why-do-break-ups-hurt-so-much/) - When a significant relationship has run its course, some of the pain we experience is about letting go of your own history, your shared story.
- [Sex & The Single Person](https://cyndidarnell.com/sex-the-single-person/) - Being single isn't for wimps. There are so many moving parts and not a lot of support. It's a minefield. Here's why!
- [Is everything we believe about monogamy wrong?](https://cyndidarnell.com/is-everything-we-believe-about-monogamy-wrong/) - What if testosterone was not the driver of our desire and what if women were worse off sexually than men under the current relationship structures?
- [The (short) History of the Penis](https://cyndidarnell.com/the-short-history-of-the-penis/) - The (short) history of the PenisThe penis has been enormously influential in shaping our beliefs and the cultural history of the world. Revered and feared in societies across the world, its name 'penis' comes from the Latin, meaning ‘tail’ and is the ultimate symbol of masculinity worldwide. Temples in India were once erected (no pun intended) in their honor,
- [Why Speaking About Sex Is Important!](https://cyndidarnell.com/why-speaking-about-sex-is-important/) - Australia's trusted leading sex and relationship therapist
- [Porndemonium](https://cyndidarnell.com/porndemonium/) - The porn 'crisis' and what to do about it.
- [5 Communication Problems That Erode Relationships](https://cyndidarnell.com/communication-problems/) - Busting toxic habits in intimate relationships
- [When Love Hurts...](https://cyndidarnell.com/when-love-hurts/) - Valentine's day can really throw a spanner in the works for many of us. Here are some tips for dealing with it.
- [Less Sex, Bad Sex & Sex Tech](https://cyndidarnell.com/less-sex-bad-sex-sex-tech/) - Why are we having less sex than before and does it even matter? How do we solve the dilemmas of modern sexual relationships?

## Pages

- [Sex Therapist NYC](https://cyndidarnell.com/) - Sex therapist NYC somatic sexologist for low desire, mismatched desire, couple's therapy, polyamory, non-monogamy, queer kink-affirming. Online Virtual
- [FAQs](https://cyndidarnell.com/faqs/) - Q: Do you offer therapy for low desire or desire mismatch? A: Yes — this is one of my specialties. I help individuals and couples explore the emotional, physiological, and relational factors that shape desire. Q: Are you poly-friendly or kink-affirming? A: Absolutely. My practice is fully affirming of kink, BDSM, polyamory, and all forms of consensual non-monogamy. Q: Do you work with couples? A: Yes. I support couples and multi-partner relationships with intimacy repair, communication skills, boundaries, desire, and sustainable erotic connection. Q: Do you offer online sessions? A: Yes, I offer secure online therapy worldwide. Q: What issues do you specialize in? A: Low desire, mismatched libido, long-term intimacy, kink, polyamory, erotic shame, nervous-system-informed sexuality, and desire collapse in relationships.
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