I have always been a pleasure enthusiast. For as far back as I can remember, my fascination with passion, creativity and pleasure has been part of my identity. Having travelled the world extensively in my 20s in the pursuit of self-knowledge and then my 30s exploring more introspective wonders and delights, I have come to embrace the understanding that well-being, intimacy and relationships are not something separate from our lives, but part of our lives as a pathway to genuine satisfaction.

My pursuit of accurate and useful knowledge in this arena has led me down a variety of avenues to get the comprehensive and diverse know-how I have today. From the dedicated ‘hands-on’ approach I started with including Sexological Bodywork, Taoist sexuality studies, Tantra and good old fashioned trial and error – through to academic studies and internships in  counselling, linguistics and specialist clinical sex therapy, I am thrilled to be able to offer my work from a variety of perspectives and approaches from the clinical to the esoteric that embrace, understand and honour the diversity of the human condition.

I have presented my work to professional and public audiences in Australia and around the world. A regular at Melbourne’s Wheeler Centre, I am also a writer, published in the Journal of Sex Education (UK) and the Journal of Sex and Relationship Therapy (UK) and a contributor to anthology Signed, Sealed, Delivered from ‘Women of Letters’ with Penguin.

You will often see and hear me within Australian and international media. I was the principal sexuality consultant and primary therapist on Luke Warm Sex (now on Netflix) and a regular media commentator whose opinion is frequently sought for TV, radio and print including The Project,  The Huffington Post, ABC Radio, The Age, Sydney Morning Herald, Cosmopolitan and much more. In 2015 I was the only sexologist named in MindBodyGreen’s list of Top 100 Women to Watch.

I am the proud creator of The Atlas of Erotic Anatomy and Arousal, a pioneering educational video series designed to provide up-front information to adults about sex, the body and most importantly, pleasure! This is the sex education you should have gotten at school, but never did! Check out my other educational seminars and workshops too.

I was the founder and creator of Pleasure Forum Australia, and was mentor to the Minus 18 Sex Gurus, a queer  sex and health project for young queer identifying and gender questioning people.

I work predominantly in Melbourne, but also offer my workshops and therapeutic sessions to an international clientele via Skype.

My formal qualifications are:

  • Master of Health Sciences (Sexual Health) (University of Sydney)
  • Master of Narrative Therapy & Community Work (University of Melbourne)
  • Post Graduate Diploma of Counselling and Human Services (La Trobe University)
  • Post Graduate Diploma of Applied Linguistics (La Trobe University)
  • Bachelor of Education (La Trobe University)

Other than my passion for work,  I am a travel enthusiast and my current obsession is New York City. I have travelled all over the world including most of Europe and Asia. I have lived in Scotland, Spain and Dubai, punctuated with long stints in Amsterdam and India. I have a fondness for women’s shoes which is reflected in my vast personal collection,  and  my first book is on its way.  When not researching or writing,  I read about Buddhism and Traditional Chinese Medicine. I also love animals, red wine, most Spanish things, being cooked for, sewing and shooting the breeze!