Sex Therapist
Sexologist
& Couple's/ Relationship Counselor.
I help people have better sex, rediscover desire & enjoy richer, deeper relationships.
Stop Struggling Start Loving
Sex Therapy NYC & Online
Create A Life Worth Loving
If you're struggling with sex, life, intimacy, relationships, or menopause you've come to the right place. As a sex therapist who expertly blends the very best of both modern and traditional sex therapy, with couple's counseling and non-monogamy relationship counseling, our time together is tailored to support you in creating your best sex life, and greatest relationships ever.
Imagine experiencing the confidence, freedom, pleasure, intimacy and passion you long for. Imagine having easier connections, fewer struggles, better communication and amazing sex.
All of this is doable and learnable.
A psychotherapist by training in my native Australia, I am a clinical sexologist, qualified sex coach, certified sex therapist & marriage and relationships counselor offering:
- counseling & coaching for individuals / relationships / sex therapy
- comprehensive support for traditional & alternative relationships including non-monogamy & polyamory
- understanding and managing desire discrepancy /mismatched desire / low libido
- support for healing sexual trauma
- menopause support
- family of origin /attachment styles work
- improving relationships, attunement & communication
- somatic sexology/ somatic sex therapy
- online courses
- couple's intimacy retreats in New York City
- online video consulting around the USA and worldwide.
I serve individuals, traditional couples & people in polyamorous, kinky and non-monogamous relationships with my affirming, compassionate and no B.S. approach.
LGBTQIA+, gender expansive folks, straight identities & all faiths welcome (including no faith).
"My mission is to create safe, affirming spaces where clients can explore their desires, challenges, and relationships without shame or judgment. True intimacy begins with honest communication, self-awareness, and compassion—both for oneself and others."
"Cyndi Darnell is a national treasure, a truly stellar, creative, intelligent dynamo of a səx and relationship therapist. She is refreshingly authentic, down-to-earth, wise, witty, and genuinely passionate about helping others discover their own unique, rich, and consciously aware səxual and erotic self."
- D. M Ortmann. New York City
Sex, When You Don't Feel Like It
The Truth About Mismatched Libido & Rediscovering Desire
From the Vatican to Vegas, From Disney to P0rnHub, we’ve been tricked into believing love and sex are like a hand in a glove, though few of us experience them that way.
Discover unshakable confidence and the best ways for you to create the most satisfying sex, but more importantly, how to keep it that way.
Sex Therapy, Relationships Counseling & Sex Coaching
Everyone needs support in creating and sustaining meaningful lives, strong relationships , empowered communities and great sex. Join me online via video from anywhere in the world.
Online Courses
Programs for individuals and partners who want to experience more pleasure, joy and empowerment. Learn how your body works, how to manage changes in intimacy and differing drives, increase connection, learn massage techniques, overcome performance anxiety, increase communication and so much more.
Events and Professional Training
Come learn with me. For laypeople and professional coaches, therapists, clinicians and teachers.
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"We - without hesitation - recommend Cyndi Darnell to everyone! Couples or singles. Cyndi will teach you and help you find that something inside yourself that you didn’t even know was missing.” – Sam
